I
remember when I was 5 years old we were living in a small rented house. Our
family was going through a really bad financial phase. My dad would travel
every day to another town for work. When he would come home in the evening we
would go to the Ganesh temple. It was the biggest temple in our Wai town. There
was beautiful ghat around that temple, set of stairs leading down to the river
Krishna. That place was like some painting of a town. Everyone would come there
in the evening to socialize. There were few ice cream stalls and the waiters
would roam around to take orders with a steel tray in their hands. I would get
ice cream once a week. One evening we went to
the ghat after my dad came back from work. I was playing with some kids while
my mom & dad were sitting on the ghat. They seemed more serious than usual
as they were talking about something. After playing I went to them and sat in
between them. Suddenly, I saw the waiter passing by and I shouted Ice Cream. He
came to us to take the order. My mom told him, 'Sorry, we don't want ice
cream.' That had never happened that I was denied ice cream. I knew something
was wrong. So I looked at mom and she said, 'Sorry, we don't have money.' And I
saw both of my parents sitting with their head down in complete helplessness
that they could not afford a 2 Rupees ice cream for their only child. I
couldn't even imagine what it feels like to be a parent in that situation. I
kept quiet and then we walked back home after a while. That incident was the
most painful and hard-hitting experience for my parents which pushed them to
come out of poverty and provide a good life for their child.
As years passed, my
dad got better jobs and promotions with a good salary. We built our first home
in Wai. Later we bought a flat in Pune. Things were going really great. I had
seen the bad times and then I was enjoying the good times. Still, I would never
demand anything from my parents. I guess it was the childhood conditioning from
the struggling times. I wasn't born with a silver spoon. When I turned 20 I
came to Pune for further studies. First 2 years I spent exploring Pune through
city bus. Living in Pune without your own vehicle and completely dependent on
city transport was miserable. It was a daily struggle. But I didn't complain
and had accepted it. But dad realised that and one day asked me if I want to
buy a bike. I wanted to but I was concerned about spending money. Rather I
would travel by bus only. So I said there was no need as of now for a bike. But
my dad anyways asked me to enquire different bikes and get quotations. In 2
days I got a few quotations for bikes costing 30k to 40k. My dad looked at them
and said which was the best bike in the market. I said, 'Its Pulsar but I
didn't get its quotation as it's very expensive.' Pulsar was my dream bike. It
was the sportiest among all with its mag wheels and eye-catching look. Dad
asked me do you like that bike. I obviously said Yes. He then asked how much
does it cost. I told him it was around 60k. He said, 'That's fine, we are going
to buy it tomorrow.' I couldn't believe my ears. Was it real or some dream? I
couldn't sleep that night thinking about riding Pulsar.
Next day we went to
the Bajaj showroom and checked the bike. I selected a black colour for my brand
new Pulsar Dtsi 150cc bike. It was the happiest day of my life. I was walking
around my bike, touching it everywhere, checking its every detail and smiling
thinking about the beginning of a new life. My dad was standing there looking
at me getting excited about the bike. We came home, he handed me some money and
said, "This is for the party your friends will ask you for the bike. A
little Ice cream treats from me." That took me back to the ghat when I was
5 years old sitting with my parents who felt helpless that evening. I still
have that bike and I ride it with pride as a gift from my dad.
What Parents Can Do
For Their Children Is Beyond Imagination.
Tuesday, 5 January 2021
My First Bike
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